vivien's secret

 

       少年时，姑姑耿直，凡事必分黑白，是以虽是好人，却处处碰壁，而祖母淡定，什么事到她处，仿佛没了动静，日后却必有良方，是以明白，与人在世，水清无鱼，一味的清清楚楚未必就是好事，什么叫尚有余地，把事情瞧在眼里，把话藏在心底就叫尚有余地，说出来的话只有结果，没有余地。是以要三思而后话。不能忍的人，多半求一时之快。成事不足。所以我们都要学会安静。静静地听别人讲，静静看别人做。静静地学会明明知道还要扮作不知，然后，慢慢地你就会了解。人与人是如此的不同，然后，慢慢地你便明白，有些人你永远都不必为他们花时间。找不到目标和方向的人，总是很彷徨的。其实急也没用，总不能为想要如何就硬逼自己去做个什么事，为不落后他人而采取任何激进的尝试其实很危险，婚姻如此，事业也一样，朋友如此，工作也一样，每个人的环境，机遇，性格都不同，别人能做的事，你未必就可以，所以本份就好，聪慧的人总是在认真的积累，等到时机成熟，或是找到真正合适自己的机会才开始发彪，盲目追求激进的人，可能开头风光，结局不爽，留有余地是因为了解自己，不妄为，不激进，有时候很想告诉你，生活还是脚踏实地的好，人自设目标就好，以他人为目标的人，身心憔悴！
--读完这篇，感慨颇深。

1. You know that "cum" means something completely different from what you originally thought.
2. You've lost your sense of irony, sarcasm, and cynicism.
3. You don't know what's lame and what isn't anymore.
4. You think there's nothing wrong with putting chili sauce on everything you eat.
5. You wait for instructions from people in authority before doing anything. Always.
6. You join queues without knowing or caring what the queue is for.
7. You know what "queue" means!!
8. You can type an SMS on your phone as quickly as you would if you had a regular keyboard.
9. Your idea of a good night out consists of having dinner at a hawker centre, drinking beer, and then going to another hawker centre and eating again.
10. You've lost your ability to criticize people in higher positions than you, even if they're wrong.
11. You would buy a $20 product you don't need if it's on sale for $10 just to save the money.
12. You forget to say the last consonant in words like "faCT", "aTE",etc.
13. You think it's okay to have only one meaningful choice on a ballot.
14. Every task you take on and every group you form is incomplete without a mission statement and a cheesy slogan.
15. You think that in a country where young people have little privacy, pornography is completely banned, music and movies are censored, students of the opposite sex in a dorm can't stay in the same room without open doors, and everyone works so much, that people should still want to get laid.
16. "Crossing the country" means taking the MRT to the end of the line.
17. You don't just know what "kiasu" means, you have become it!
18. You think that corn and beans are dessert foods.
19. You would cross the entire country all day to find the places that make the perfect fried noodles, or roti prata, or ice kacang, or chili crab. And none of these places would be close to each other.
20. You have a high tolerance for nagging.
21. Most or all of these acronyms make sense to you: NUS; NTU; ERP; SDU; PAP; MRT; LKY; GCT; PRC; TIBS; SBS; SMS; JB; JBJ; AMK; AYE; PIE; ECP; ISD; ISA; 5 C's; CPF; CHIJMES; SPG; CWO.
22. You use too many acronyms when you talk, or you create new ones.
23. You think that nothing makes a girl or guy more attractive than to dress exactly like hundreds of thousands of other girls and guys who all dress exactly like girls and guys in malls.
24. You think that $100,000 is a reasonable price for a Toyota Corolla and $1,000,000 is a reasonable price for a bungalow, but $5 for a plate of fried noodles is a barbarous outrage.
25. You believe that not being able to get decent roti prata outside Singapore is enough to keep the best and the brightest people from leaving.
26. You see nothing wrong with forming committees of select elite people to deliberate and study ways to stimulate creativity and spontaneity.
27. You justify every argument with the phrase "in order for us to be competitive in the 21st century".
28. You think everything should be "topped up".
29. You have a naive belief that the war against ants will somehow be won.
30. You don't think any dish of Western food is complete without baked beans.
31. You see nothing unusual about an organization of trade unions spending more time owning and operating supermarkets, drugstores, amusement parks, nightclubs, and financial services outlets than planning the next strike.
32. You believe that a lack of land is enough justification for the goverment to do what it wants.
33. You wear winter clothes indoors and summer clothes outdoors.
34. Durian and belachan no longer stink to you.
35. You like to have fun, but not too much fun, since you need to correctly gauge the amount of fun necessary to achieve the optimal result. Any more fun that that would bring shame to your family and your country.
36. Seven french fries with lunch are more than enough for you.
37. You forgot what a city organized around a grid looks like.
38. In a country where people use smart cards for public transit, you have no problem with construction workers riding in the open backs of pickup trucks.
39. You think paying $50 for a bottle of booze that costs $15 at home is a bargain.
40. You're not confused by a street naming system that locates streets like Clementi Road, Clementi Street, Clementi Crescent, Clementi Lane, Clementi Drive, Clementi Way, and Clementi Avenues 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, and 7 all within walking distance of each other.
41. You think that skinny girls and guys are the most attractive of all. (How did they get so skinny in the first place?? Do you know how much oil is in nasi lemak, char kuay teow, duck rice, and your average curry?)
42. You get irritated if you don't see a sign telling you how long your wait's going to be for a bus, a train, or the expressway to take you where you want to go.
43. You're certain that Holland Village is for hippie bohemian artist types and not overpaid yuppies.

44. When you cross the border into Malaysia, you automatically and deeply fear foryour life and your wallet.Especially your wallet!!
45. You think that no vegetable should ever be eaten raw for any reason. Except for cucumbers.
46. No matter what you're doing at the moment, you'd rather be shopping.
47. No matter how miserable you may be here, you thank God you're not in Indonesia.

48. You're impressed by high-rise apartment buildings with actual lobbies instead of bare exposed pillars on the ground floor.
49. You don't have a problem with four different direct payment systems spread out over seven different cards in your wallet.
50. You forgot what chewing gum tastes like.
51. You say "handphone", not "cellphone" And you think there's no such thing as a handphone that'stoo thin.
52. You're not bothered by the fact that government cares whether you know how to use a toilet or urinal correctly.
53. You're sure that the best way to change social behaviour is through consistent and comprehensive government-sponsored campaigns that permeate as many aspects of daily life as possible. And when they don't work, you never speak of them again.
54. You think chicken floss, corn, mayonnaise, and tandoori spices are proper pizza toppings.
55. You agree that what the government thinks of your personal habits and lifestyle should determine whether you get a condo and how much you pay for it.
56. You've become a fan of either Arsenal, Man. U., or  Liverpool when you barely knew that soccer was before you come to Singapore.And you don't care that none of these teams are Singaporean!

57.You think a bus is incomplete without a TV.

58.You accept that expressways here are cleaner than toilets rather than the other way around.

59.You know why this list needs the following disclaimer:''This list is intended only as an amusing.light-hearted,and exaggerated look at life in Singapore

and is not meant to be taken seriously. There is no intention on the part of the author of this list to make any untrue, misleading, or defamatory statements concerning any person in particular, nor to make any statement intended to cause offense. If any such offense has been caused, the author apologizes and retracts the offending statement. In any event, the author's NOT WORTH SUING, so don't trouble yourself."
60. You understand everything on this list!!

      Flags were flying at half-mast across China. 

 

 

 

     Happy Birthday to Me!

     Chatted with several friends recently,I found myself became mature day by day.Compared to that naughty,thoughtless little girl before,I think myself have become to a real adult.I learned a lot when I experiented different kinds of events and people.Try to be a simple person,this mind impacted my brain strongly.

点名 做题

 

Nobody knows who I really am　
I never felt this empty before　
And if I ever need someone to come along　
Who's gonna comfort me, and keep me strong　

We are all rowing the boat of fate　
The waves keep on comin' and we can't escape　
But if we ever get lost on our way　
The waves would guide you thru another day　

 

 Nobody knows who I really am　
Maybe they just don't give a damn　
But if I ever need someone to come along　
I know you would follow me, and keep me strong　

 

 And every time I see you,　
the oceans leap up to my heart　
You make me wanna strain at the oars,　
and soon I can see the shore　
　　
I want you to know who I really am　
I never though I'd feel this way towards you　
And if you ever need someone to come along　
I will follow you, and keep you strong　

 

 

 

     偶尔听到这首<茉莉花>,清新秀丽的曲调勾起我的茉莉花情结......记得我的故乡,梅雨季节,细雨滋润的石头小巷,暗香浮动的茉莉花香......每到那时,年幼的我不禁停下脚步,追寻着那清幽的香气,直至找到一处别致小院,一簇簇秀气的小小白色花蕊在打湿的绿叶中静静散发沁人心脾的香气.那时总是贪婪地呼吸那茉莉花香.直到发觉时间晚了,才恍过神来,急匆匆地跑去学堂.